Tips for Brides: How to Manage Thank You Notes


Oh Internet, I have a confession to make. And since my parents read my blog too, this is a big one.

I haven’t finished our Thank You notes.

There, I said it. I wrote it. Now the whole world knows. So learn from my mistakes and get a system in place so that your loved ones and guests who are attending your big day in person or in spirit, can be thanked in a timely manner.

Although, on a side note, I would like to say that about 95% are complete, stamped, and addressed. And after speaking with an old colleague who married in June 2008 and said that they hadn’t send any notes out yet, I don’t feel so bad. I’m putting them in the mail tomorrow, promise!

Tips for wrangling thank you notes:

  • Order/purchase your Thank You notes prior to bridal showers and the wedding. We ordered ours from Wedding Paper Divas.
  • Use your bridal shower as a trial run for how you will manage your thank you notes.
  • As you open gifts, have someone (sister, mom, best friend, bridesmaid) keep a record of who gave you what.
  • Use the list of addresses you’ve compiled for invitations to address your thank you notes.
  • If you received a registry item (i.e. via Macy’s or Crate & Barrel, etc) keep the order slip! It has the shipper’s name and address on it.
  • Purchase Forever stamps before the next postage hike. I know the Liberty Bell isn’t the cutest stamp, but at least you know your note will be covered in the event of another postage increase.
  • Don’t put it off! I was really good about getting my thank you notes out post-bridal shower. Post-wedding, not so much.
  • Write thank you notes in manageable batches. I wrote our wedding thank you’s in groups of 10-15. This made writing 100+ much more palatable.
  • If you’re writing thank you notes on behalf of your new spouse, make sure you ask how to address his side of the family – “Auntie So-and-So, Uncle What’s His Name, and Cousin Beula” etc.
  • And most importantly, GET THEM DONE! Show your loved ones you appreciated their presence and/or well wishes.

Happy Wednesday!

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  • Reply La Meche 10.14.2009 at 1:44 pm

    that works for me since I owe you a gift. I love you CatieBaby.


  • Reply Stephie 10.14.2009 at 1:54 pm

    Lol.. Cousin Beula.. I think I’ll change my name to Beula so I can be cousin Beula

  • Reply Jess 10.14.2009 at 6:36 pm

    I’m not done either!! I’ve sent out everyone but OUR friends figuring they won’t care as much. Now I feel better! Thanks!

  • Reply gina 10.19.2009 at 4:47 pm

    that is a beautiful card! love the paper!

  • Reply Luisa 10.21.2009 at 11:34 am

    I just got yours the other day – getting real mail is such a treat! Glad you can put the gift to good use.

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