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Confused Admirers

“Haters are confused admirers who cannot understand why everybody loves you” – Paulo Coelho

Yes, haters. I don’t understand them. And with the Internet, it’s so easy for haters to be mean. Behind the “safety” of a computer and an anonymous name, it’s easy to be negative, critical, and all around mean, just for the sake of criticizing someone or something.

I was reading this great blog post by Young House Love and how they deal with criticism. I love how Sherry says that she tries to look at them from a place of love. Considering their situation. And being compassionate.

I loved this advice. Because it doesn’t do any good to get upset over a comment from someone I don’t know and who doesn’t know me. And really, instead of get all up in arms about how much haters annoy me or are terrible people, instead, I don’t let it get to me. I think about them, and what their situation must be that they are willing to take the time to cut someone down. Positive comments and affirmation are great for self-confidence, however, all it takes is one mean or negative comment to ruin your day. At least, that’s how I feel.

And plus, if this criticism is coming from a source that is not important to me – my husband, my parents, my sister, or closest family and friends, then really, I don’t need to worry about it. Because those people know me, and they can call me out on something if I’m being ridiculous or out of line, and I can evaluate. But anonymous people? No worries.

I found this on Pinterest yesterday, and found the print on Etsy by Life’s a Journal.

Haters are confused admirers

Available on Etsy from Life’s a Journal

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January Favorites

Where did January go? Weren’t we just ringing into 2012? Yeah. It went by fast for me. I had some favorite moments this month, here are a few.

January Favorites

 

1. I don’t know what too me SO LONG, but I finally ate at Oddfellows in Dallas. Actually, twice this month. Many thanks to Sara & Rocky Garza for suggesting we go to lunch there. I had the Mac & Cheese, which was voted the Best Mac & Cheese in Dallas in 2011. I wholeheartedly agree. This past week, I had the Fried Green Tomato sandwich and it was amazing, too.

2. Spending time with the Photo Ladies. For the last few months, I’ve gotten together with some photographer friends. We share food, life, and business. It’s great to have friends to chat with, who understand what it’s like.

3. I made it a point that this month, I would connect with new friends and online friends. It’s easy to meet people at a networking event, but I believe it’s important to connect again one on one. And It’s super easy to have online Facebook friends, but it’s a whole other thing to get to know them for real. I loved getting to know them better, and I even got a chance to meet Eugene & Heather who were in town from Nashville, who until last week were only friends online..

4. At the beginning of the month, there was the first Global Share group and a handful of photographers came over to my house to hang out and virtually chat with groups from around the country. Although, we totally failed to take a group photo. D’oh.

5. Reading The War of Art by Steven Pressfield. I just finished this book the other night and it was a great book. It’s a pretty quick read, and really gets you thinking about what’s keeping you from your creative breakthroughs. What is holding you back, what you can do to push through it.

Happy Friday!

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How to Survive WPPI: Part 1: Prep

It’s almost February. Which means a couple of things.

1) My birthday is coming soon.

2) WPPI is almost here.

This will be the fourth time I’ve gone. It’s always such a fun few days (and exhausting!), but I know that for a first-timer it can be intimidating and overwhelming. What? Just me? Well, even if you’re not intimated by large groups of people that you don’t know, these are my tips for getting prepped for WPPI, and if you’re a Showiteer, Showit United.

1. Bring Business Cards – even if you don’t have a business card, have some made. You can get 1000 business cards printed at GotPrint.com for $10. You can also get less, like 250 for $8. Worth the investment? I think so. It’s cheaper than a “cheap” meal in Vegas. No excuses! Plus, you can use your extras to canvas your local Chipotles and enter for a free burrito. Well, maybe that’s just me.

2. Make a plan, but be flexible. I remember my first year. I wanted to do everything. See everything. Be everything. Of course, that’s totally not realistic, but when you’re excited anything seems possible right? And, I must note, there are three general camps when it comes to WPPI: those who are there to learn, those who are there to party, and those who are there to learn and party. I like to think that I fall into the third category. I like to party, but I also like to learn. And I like to sleep. I’m one of those rare people (my age!) who actually sleeps most of a full night while in Vegas. I like to plan out what classes to check out, but I’m okay if I end up running into a friend (or new friend, you’ll make lots of those) and we grab a bite or end up chatting away. Making connections with people is the best part about WPPI. The classes are great too, but having friends who can help you will definitely go farther in the long run.

via Travelista

3. Pack Light – I was Googling “how to pack light” a couple of months ago because I fall into one of two categories: packing SO light that I forget something or overpacking and the suitcase is bursting. I highly recommend packing light. Las Vegas is in the desert and it’s super dry. You’ll constantly feel thirsty and your skin will get itchy (okay, again, that may just be me), so be sure to dress in layers. It’s February, but in between walking through the casino, the tradeshow, and hanging out with people, you will get hot, cold, and maybe even a little sweaty. Check out this AWESOME post by Travelista.

4. Comfortable Shoes. I don’t know about you, but I value the comfort of me feet. I take it seriously. To all those who can rock out the heels all day, more power to you. I, on the other hand, cannot. I’m all about comfortable shoes. Especially if you’re logging at least a 2 mile trek everyday you are there. I don’t want my feet to hate me. Of course, there are parties and events, so be sure to pack shoes you can wear for a dressier event. But for walking the tradeshow – comfort is key.

5. Bring a Point & Shoot – Unless you are planning on taking a workshop, or know that you WILL USE your big, fancy camera, don’t feel the need to bring it. I recommend a point & shoot. But if you’re like me, REMEMBER TO BRING THE CAMERA BATTERY. In 2010, I totally brought my camera. But I did not bring the camera battery. Packing fail. Of course, with the way that cameras are now on the iPhone and Droids, you may not even need the point and shoot, but when it’s dark, the flash on a P&S is better. The thing about a Point & Shoot is that it’s way more portable than your DSLR, and when you run into friends at a party, you can snap a quick picture, like so:

With my friends from college & photographers, Daniel & Vaness Galang

photo from 2009 with David Jay

last year 2011, catching up with photographer friends from California!

6. Stay at the Signature Suites (not the MGM) – This is actually the first year that I’m staying at the Signature, but for the last two years, I have known how awesome it is. It is still part of the MGM Hotel family, but there are some great perks.

  1. It’s smoke-free. You don’t have to walk through clouds of stale smoke to make it back to your room.
  2. It’s casino-free. If you’re a non-gambler like me, you won’t have to walk through the windowless labyrinth.
  3. It’s closer to the conference center. And there are moving sidewalks to help you get there. In 2010, I had my Nike+ tracker in my shoes, and the walk from the conference center (where classes and the tradeshow are) to my room in the MGM was about .75 miles. A round trip was 1.5 miles! Crazy.
  4. Kitchens & kitchenettes. Food in Vegas is expensive. It’s easy to go to Vegas on the cheap, but nourishing yourself, not so cheap. I love that I’ll have a little fridge (the one-bedrooms have a full kitchen) to keep some things to eat.

7. Bring a water bottle. This was one of the BEST decisions I made last year. And saved me so. much. money. I’m a huge fan of water. And actually, I’m okay with drinking tap water. However, Las Vegas has some of the gnarliest tap water I’ve tasted. It tastes like metal. But, in the conference area hallways, the hotel has cold water dispensers, filled frequently by hotel staff (NOTE: I’m not talking about water fountains, though, those would work too). I filled up whenever I passed by and never had to buy bottled water. It was awesome. My wallet totally thanked me. You can thank me later.:)Purchase one on Amazon.

Next time, I’ll share how this introvert (yes, me!) went to WPPI with strangers.

I hope this helps! And if you have other tips, leave them in the comments!

For even more tips, check out Karen Stott’s post!

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Lydia - Awesome tips, Catie! Just sad that I’m staying at the Grand again because I couldn’t get roommates at the Signature…maybe next year!